Conversation about before life / after life

It all started with a talk about a past event, before the boy was born. That triggered it...
"Where was I?", the boy asked.
"You were not born', the wife replied.
"Why?"
"Because God had not decided yet to send you", the wife didn't wanting to complicate about the birth and death.
"Does that mean all the babies are in heaven with God before being sent to their parents?", the boy asked, his curiosity aroused.
"Yes", replied the wife cautiously.
"Does that mean that I would have met Ah in heaven before he was sent to Dada and Mama?".
"May be".
"Does that mean that the babies with God now will be talking to Muthassan?",  referring to my father who passed away last November. We had told the boy that he had gone to heaven.

Again, some days later we were  going through some old photos and the started...
"Where was I?", the boy asked.
"You were not born', the wife replied.
"Oh, I was with God before being sent to you!", the boy replied brightly.